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Okay so I just started a body transformation weight loss challenge that is a 90 day challenge to help get to the weight and healthy lifestyle goal that you have !! The challenge is called Body By Vi (ViSalus) Many of you have probably heard of it because it is a really fast growing weight loss system! I went to a national event this past weekend and I was SO inspired by this product because you can tell it actually works!! There were people at the event that in just 90 days lost 115lbs and some that even came off of their diabetes medications!! HOW AMAZING IS THAT?!!  I’ve tried just about everything there is on the market for weight loss but I am so happy to finally find a product that works!! I was so happy that I’ve actually joined a team to start distributing the product and helping others reach their weight loss goals! Thats how excited I am :D

I would love to share with everyone more information! You can go to my direct website to learn more !  www.chelseagarcia.bodybyvi.com .. or you can message me and I’ll give you all the information you need! :)

It is basically a shake meal replacement .. but the shakes are SO filling and very low in calories!

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http://youtu.be/S0CDJunVdXw

That is a video with all the nutritional facts and breakdown of what all you would need to eat to get the amount of nutrition that is in just one low calorie shake! (170 calories) and at only $1.87 per shake/meal! Amazing right?!

You can even win prizes like free Hollywood vacations or cruises or even cash for losing weight!

Here’s some of the before and after pictures in just 90 days!

<— 115lbs in 10days!!

CONGRATS TO ALL OF YOU!!!!!! :) You will all continue to inspire people all over to reach their goal weight and change their lives forever!!

Again— anyone interested in the product I can send you samples or any information you need … and also their is a 100% money back guarantee so if you aren’t happy with it then you can get your money back.. but I can promise you won’t need to :)

You can also contact me through here or email - CGarcia_Visalus@yahoo.com

My website- chelseagarcia.bodybyvi.com

And if you are looking for a part time job and would like to become a distributer also contact me! Free BMW’s :):)

Success From Home magazine features Body By Vi 

Life is hard, but so worth it. It is full of moments where you are so upset that you feel like you will never be happy again, but you will. It is also full of times that you are so happy you couldn’t imagine yourself being sad ever again..

Losing someone you love is the hardest struggle I think that anyone will ever have to go through in life.. and sadly it usually happens well over one time.  Whether you lose someone you love to death, a break up, a loss of a good friend, etc.. they are all moments of hurt. 

I’ve been going through a lot lately, and sometimes I feel like it is more than I can handle.. but I have to keep positive and try to make myself happy. 

The hardest part of losing someone you love, in my opinion, is wondering what you could have done to prevent it from happening.. But sometimes there is nothing that could have been done. Speaking in a relationship situation, the reason that there is nothing that can be done a lot of the time is because one person or the other, or sometimes even both, have fallen out of love.  This doesn’t mean that they don’t care about you.. or that they don’t enjoy your company and the thought of being with you.. but sometimes they just don’t plan for you to be the person of their future.. the person they want to be with the rest of their lives.

This is the difference between being in love with somone and loving someone. Someone can honestly tell you they love you, but it doesn’t mean they are IN love with you. They are only in love with the concept of being in a relationship at the present time and maybe their future just doesn’t hold a spot for you. Being unsure if it does or not isn’t really possible in my opinion, but being wrong about it and realizing  it later is very possible.

I have had one previous (serious) relationship prior to the one that I just came out of that I thought that I was in love. I saw this person in my future no matter what we went through.. no matter what happened or whatever arguement happened, i still knew that I wanted that person to be in my life as long as I lived. After things happened and I was pulled and pushed in and out of that relationship, I realized that he was not the person that I wanted to be with the rest of my life. He was someone that I loved the concept of, and loved things about him. We went through things that kept us strong, but I later found out that actions that took place during our relationship showed how much he wasn’t in love with me.

On that same note, people do make mistakes.. but mistakes need to be proven if they are really a “mistake. I feel that sometimes people have trouble proving themselves because they aren’t actually sorry about what they did.

Back to my relationships. I was lead out of that relationship and fell in love with someone that I knew was the one for me. There was never a time that I wanted to be without that person, and there was never a time I didn’t want him to be the person I spent my whole life with. The different thing about him was even if he couldn’t prove his mistakes or treat me the way I deserved to be treated.. I loved him enough to still keep us together. There is only so much a person can take. I have made plenty of mistakes throughout my relationships with both friends, family, and boyfriends.. but I always make sure to do everything I can to prove that I truly am sorry about anything I have done to hurt them. I try not to have regrets but with this relationship I did have two major regrets.. One of the mistakes was the way things ended between us. We always managed to keep a healthy relationship even despite the struggles we had, but I never thought our final break up would be the way it was. 

I thought he was the one. We fell together just at the right time and some parts of me feels like he saved my life. I was really fortunate to get to experience such a lively and amazing relationship with an incredible person.. but that feeling wasn’t able to last long enough for the hopes I had for our future together. I can’t be the only one trying all the time.. It was obvious that he had fallen out of love with me to the point that I was never happy anymore. The only way I could make myself happy was when I was doing things for him that made him smile, or just making him happy in general. All I wanted was to feel loved.. and that was the base of every arguement. And if he was really in love with me, it would have shown. The mistakes he made weren’t able to leave my mind because they were never proven. Nothing I ever did was good enough because fault was always found and brought up anytime we argued, even if it was about something he did. Its hard giving your all and keeping a relationship together when it can never be strong. A strong relationship requires both people to be 110% dedicated every step of the way.

I really thought that fate had brought us together because of the way we had met.  The way he treated me from the start was exactly what I wanted in a man.. and it had happened at the right time. At a party with rooms full of so many people, we were brought together.. and for various reasons, we spent the whole evening together just talking and getting to know each other. Its hard to find guys that really care about what you have to say or let me vent and talk their ear off all night.. A lot of mens intentions when going to parties is finding a girl to take home with them for the sole purpose of a one night stand.. But he was different. We spent the evening talking and learning about each others lives.. and we clicked right off bat. I even mostly talked about my relationship struggle that I was coming out off a lot of the time.. and how I was in love. He was able to look past that and it wasn’t long after that we first told each other that we really were interested in each other. It was the quickest I ever moved on from anyone because I knew that this man was the one for me. Months flew by of spending time together.. I was going through a tough time and I wouldn’t have been able to go through it without his love and support. I fell so hard in love that autumn that I knew I would never fall out of it.

Before I knew it, it was already another halloween. We were brought back to the night that we had fallen for each other. We went through struggles the first year but only ones that made us stronger. That year, not matter what we went through, I really felt as if we were a whole. We were one person. Everything we did was in favor of each other and we did nothing but make each other so happy. We were in love.

The start of 2010 was where the major struggles began. We tried to go on a break early in the year, but it made things too open end and in my opinion tore our relationship apart. It was back and forth of chasing each other and wishing things were back to the way they were the year before.. I missed it, we both did.. but I never could see us being apart. I was still fully in love with him.  As the year went on, things took a drastic change. The way we treated each other started to become unhealthy, and the amount that we fought was too. There was a point that he treated me the worst I had ever been treated my someone in my life. He had the “i don’t give a efff” attitude… which he really didn’t. He told me at a few different occasions that he didn’t see a future in us.. but I still tried. We both went through points that we tried to not be together for good.. but always ended up back together. I wondered if we were still in love with each other or if we were too used to the lifestyle we led together. We shared friends.. the most mature parts of our lives were these three years and we grew up a lot and learned a lot together. Everything I did or saw was him.. and It was way too hard for me to move on. 

I wanted to be together.. I wanted things to be good but it was obvious that he didn’t feel the same. He wasn’t the same person that I fell in love with OR he just didn’t love me like he did back then. He was convinced that he was, but I can’t see that being possible. Alcohol being in the mixture of fighting and arguing made things ten times worse.. I was willing to give that up if it meant we would be happy together but he wasn’t. That was the time I knew that he didn’t think that I was worth it.  That was when it was obvious to me that he really didn’t care about us making it to the future together and that unless I was able to convince him, it wasn’t going to happen. Fall fell again and things began to look up. I really thought that things were actually going to be better this time. We began dating again in full swing by winter of 2010. We took a vacation which was the best vacation of my life.. and I really thought it was the strength of our relationship and would help things for the new year.. and it did, but it didn’t last. January of 2011 started so well and I really believed that he was trying. Things were looking up in my life too with my friends, jobs, family, etc and I was really excited because I knew that less stress in my life would help our relationship as well.

Mid January of 2011 I was hurt more than I had been in awhile. Words were said that struck me so hard that it hurt me to look at him. I thought it was a mistake but I wanted to be sure.. but he wasn’t able to prove it to me.. it was too much to ask I guess. I tried to move past it but it wasn’t easy and it caused me to be more frustrated and short tempered with him for things that I shouldn’t have even had an attitude about. I was just so irritated I couldn’t help it. The last weekend of January 2011 was the end of the three years we were together. It ended in a very unhealthy and immature way and I know it will leave me emotionally scarred and hurt probably the rest of my life. I never knew two people that were telling each other they were in love with each other and had a future with each other could ever treat each other the way we did that final night of our relationship. I regret it, but the truth was finally out that the past three years of my life were an experience that we need to learn from. He is a good person, and so am I, but we weren’t meant to share the rest of our lives together. I am thankful for the happiness that he brought me and the support and love that I had from him the past three years. He made me a different person and taught me so much. I do not regret spending such a long period of my life with him because everything happens for a reason. There is someone out there for the both of us that will make us unconditionally happy again. 

And this is my new beginning